Correct... it seems we agree. Was only ever asking people to be gentlemanly (womanly) and *try* to avoid using that frequency if possible. I should have said "try" and "when possible" in the original posting, which I think is the part with which what you took umbrage. It was in now way meant to mean "you can't be here, go away." In reviewing my original post I do see how it could possibly have been interpreted that way. Sorry for the confusion.