The obsessive-compulsive crowd are trying to tell you: If they don't like something, you shouldn't do it. They don't care if you're enjoying yourself. They don't care if you're doing the best you can in a restricted environment. They are terrified that there won't be anyone left on phone to listen to their know-it-all diatribes.
This thread has been like a "wild ride" at Gilley's. We were in Austin a few months ago. Wish we could go back to attend this event and enjoy some more BBQ!