Dan, Sounds to me like a cease fire on both sides and a sit down to discuss options is in order. If I was Jud, I'd see what options were for remaining in the club under a few ground rules. If I were Gary, I would not want to lose one member if both sides can agree on the conditions. In some cases people are just to mad at each other to put differences behind. All it takes is one party willing to carry the torch. This one sounds fixable. Since you guys brought this here, maybe you'll let us know how it all turns out. Hopefully you'll both do the right thing. Good luck!