Yeah most of that stuff, I agree to disagree on and let her decide what she wants. If i had my way, we would have a minimalist decor, white walls and not much else. Partly because i don't care and partly because i am not a consumer. But she does care and so the house is decorated how she wants. Thinking about it, there is not a lot either of is would go to war with each other over. In many ways we have the perfect relationship, in that my garbage and issues are not things that bother her and her garbage and issues do not bother me. If you can find someone whose crap you can deal with that does not make you want to kill them, then you have a winner. We have never had a serious fight about anything. We kind of complement each other well that way.