I don't understand the security issue but I do understand your frustrations. Do what I did when it got all too much (agony aunts)... take a break from here for 6 months and then reevaluate. Maybe after that time you will be in a better position to return. If not just log out and be done. Just remember the internet IS NOT ham radio... nor should it be. Remember you don't owe anyone here anything... especially your valuable time. Cheers,