Moved into my wife's house after we got married. I had picked out a small bedroom to use as a shack; she insisted I take over the family room with a large console made up of three desks. She said I can put up whatever I want for antennas. Doesn't flinch when I drill holes. She actually (sincerely) gets excited when I tell her I have worked a new country. I told her beforehand I would never live anywhere I couldn't have a tower, and she agreed. She says my ham radio is important to me and she wants me to be happy.
Awesome girl. If I had to live with some snag who I had to beg for approval and nitpicked me to death over my radio gear and antennas, I'd still be single.