KE5FRF
08-05-2006, 02:55 AM
Since I got on HF abt 6 months ago, I have done my very best to QSL reply 100% on hard QSLs recieved in the mail. I had issues with eQSL, and stopped using it in favor of REAL cards. They just seem to be more personal.
Well, I just finished a QSO with a fellow that I chatted with back in May, who had sent me a very nice card, and I had replied. His call stuck out because of the nice card, so I mentioned his nice card and asked if he had recieved mine...
NOPE.
His logging program keeps records, and none was indicated that he had entered. He went through his box...nothing.
Now, in 6 months I have recieved about 100 QSL cards, and replied 100% on all. I have sent out a good number myself that I never got a reply on. Some even included an SASE because I really needed that particular state.
About a month ago I was sent a QSL card that never made it, and I know this because it was a QRZ poster that sent it, and we discussed it via PM. He had to send me another one, which I did recieve.
OK, given these two instances...I have only logged a handful of QSOs on CW with QRZ folks, and made QSL exchanges with just TWO. Odds would seem that if lost mail is RARE, the cards that got lost wouldn't be so easily discovered and it wouldn't be a QRZ MEMEBER...and to boot, I don't have just a pluthera of second or third QSOs in the logbook where I get the opportunity to go back and ask if they recieved my card...what are the odds that the onsies and twosies that come along would turn up saying they never recieved my card as was the case in the QSO this evening...
My frustration...how many QSL cards have I sent that were lost that I will not know about? 5, 10, 30? ....I really feel like I make a new friend each time I QSO and especially when I exchange QSL cards. What if I offend someone when they never recieve my card? Will I never hear them reply to my CQ again? I doubt that is the case, I think it is not forefront in most peoples minds if they don't get a reply, but yet, it is still a concern.
Just venting here...what is your experience?
And this doesn't give me confidence when it comes to paying bills by mail either. I think I am going to start using the internet to pay bills when I can.
Well, I just finished a QSO with a fellow that I chatted with back in May, who had sent me a very nice card, and I had replied. His call stuck out because of the nice card, so I mentioned his nice card and asked if he had recieved mine...
NOPE.
His logging program keeps records, and none was indicated that he had entered. He went through his box...nothing.
Now, in 6 months I have recieved about 100 QSL cards, and replied 100% on all. I have sent out a good number myself that I never got a reply on. Some even included an SASE because I really needed that particular state.
About a month ago I was sent a QSL card that never made it, and I know this because it was a QRZ poster that sent it, and we discussed it via PM. He had to send me another one, which I did recieve.
OK, given these two instances...I have only logged a handful of QSOs on CW with QRZ folks, and made QSL exchanges with just TWO. Odds would seem that if lost mail is RARE, the cards that got lost wouldn't be so easily discovered and it wouldn't be a QRZ MEMEBER...and to boot, I don't have just a pluthera of second or third QSOs in the logbook where I get the opportunity to go back and ask if they recieved my card...what are the odds that the onsies and twosies that come along would turn up saying they never recieved my card as was the case in the QSO this evening...
My frustration...how many QSL cards have I sent that were lost that I will not know about? 5, 10, 30? ....I really feel like I make a new friend each time I QSO and especially when I exchange QSL cards. What if I offend someone when they never recieve my card? Will I never hear them reply to my CQ again? I doubt that is the case, I think it is not forefront in most peoples minds if they don't get a reply, but yet, it is still a concern.
Just venting here...what is your experience?
And this doesn't give me confidence when it comes to paying bills by mail either. I think I am going to start using the internet to pay bills when I can.